Misfits in Touch: A Relational Practice Space
Practice being yourself in connection—with other humans, in the moment.
Think: a gym for connection.
For people who are self-aware—but want to actually live it in connection.
Craving real human connection - without pressure, performance, or expectation?
Misfits in Touch is a guided relational practice space, where you don’t just talk about connection…you experience it with other humans, in the moment.
You might resonate with this space if you’re:
• burned out on dating culture
• feeling lonely—even if partnered or surrounded by friends
• craving safe, nourishing touch that doesn’t have to escalate
• curious about noticing and communicating boundaries as they arise
If that sounds familiar, you’re in the right place.
What this is
This 3.5-hour guided experience is designed as a gentle, low-stakes entry point into connection as a practice.
Through a series of simple, structured interactions, you’ll be guided step by step—so you don’t have to figure out how to connect on your own.
We move gradually, creating space to settle, explore, and connect without feeling rushed.
What You’ll Experience
Along the way, you’ll practice:
• noticing what feels like a “yes,” “no,” or “maybe” in your body
• expressing boundaries clearly and respectfully
• listening and responding to others in as it unfolds
• staying connected to yourself while being with others
You might find yourself pausing before saying yes… and realizing you actually have a choice. Or noticing the moment your body softens when something feels right.
Each part of the experience is intentionally designed to help you move from initial awkwardness into a more natural, attuned way of relating.
This isn’t about performing or getting it right—it’s about noticing what’s true for you, moment by moment.
What Makes This Different
Many spaces bring people together and hope connection happens.
Here, connection is gently guided and intentionally structured.
You won’t be left to navigate it alone…we move into connection together, step by step.
That might look like laughing through an awkward moment with someone new…or choosing to step back and realizing that your “no” is still connection.
The Flow of the evening
Misfits in Touch is inspired by the structure of cuddle-style containers, and evolves this into a guided relational practice space, with:
• guided connection exercises
• clear consent agreements
• demonstrations to support understanding
• a cozy, padded space to explore optional, platonic touch
The second half of the evening opens into a more spacious, free-form connection time.
You can follow what feels natural, at your own pace.
You might find yourself curled up in a quiet corner, sharing stillness with someone…or simply sitting nearby, taking in the room and feeling part of something without needing to do anything at all.
Everything is optional.
Your “no” is always welcome and respected.
Connection doesn’t have to lead anywhere to be meaningful.
New Here?
Most people come on their own, and many are attending for the first time.
You don’t need experience or a partner—just curiosity and a willingness to move at your own pace.
Participants tend to be thoughtful, open, and committed to co-creating a respectful, consent-forward space together.
This space centers the comfort and safety of women, queer, and gender-diverse participants.
Inclusive. Beginner-friendly. Come solo or with a friend.
Over time…
With repeated practice, many people find they feel more comfortable:
expressing themselves
reading others
staying connected to their own boundaries
both inside and outside this space.
Learn more
If you’d like a deeper overview of Misfits in Touch - including values, consent agreements, and what to expect, you can read more here 👉Learn more about Misfits in Touch
About the Space
Led by Stella Stardust, Misfits in Touch is warm, consent-forward, and deeply human.
No touch is ever required - only curiosity, self-responsibility, and a willingness to stay present with yourself and others.
📍Location in Lincoln Heights | Los Angeles 90031 (address shared after ticket purchase)
🎟️ Choose your Spot
Sliding scale pricing helps keep this space accessible while supporting the work that sustains it.
Choose the tier that feels right for you—there’s no need to overthink it.
Choose what feels right for you:
Pay It Forward → supports the space and helps others attend
Standard → reflects the true cost of the experience
Community Supported → lower-cost option (limited spots)
Bring a Friend → attend together at a shared rate
If cost is a barrier, you’re welcome to reach out.
Ticket sales close 2 hours before start time. No last-minute entries.
Registration Policy:
Spots are limited and held with care for each participant. Because of this, tickets are non-refundable and can’t be applied to future events.
If you’re feeling unwell, please stay home — or if something unexpected comes up and you’re able to let us know in advance, we’re happy to offer a credit or refund. This helps keep the space safe and supported for everyone.
For missed events without prior notice, we’re not able to offer transfers or credits. You’re always welcome to gift your spot to a friend if you can’t make it.
We recommend adding the event to your calendar upon registration so it stays in your awareness. 💜
What to Expect + Prepare
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Wear comfortable clothes that allow for movement—like cotton t-shirts, pajamas, leggings, sweatpants. Shorts to mid-thigh and a tank top is a minimum amount of clothing required for the event. You can change when you arrive
Shoes will be left by the door when you enter
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Bring a water bottle
Bring socks if you’d like your feet to stay cozy (shoes will be off)
Bring a pillow or blanket if you'd like to be extra cozy
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Please arrive sober so you can give and receive clear consent
Come clean and fresh—this makes closeness more comfortable for everyone
Avoid perfumes, cologne, essential oils, or scented products
Please avoid cigarette smoke before arriving
If you’re feeling sick, unwell, or may have been exposed to COVID, RSV, or the flu, please stay home—your ticket will be fully refunded or credited
Facilitated by Stella Stardust
Stella Stardust (she/they) creates relational practice spaces that help people feel more connected to themselves and more honest in connection with others.
With over 20 years of experience in yoga, meditation, and somatic practices, along with training in conflict resolution as a certified mediator, Stella brings a grounded, intuitive approach to guiding connection. She’s been hosting connection-based spaces since 2019.
Her work lives at the intersection of somatics, spirituality, and social change.
Read more about Stella here