Welcome to the Misfits Relational Ecosystem in Los angeles
A Relational Habitat for Practice, belonging, and lived experience
Since 2019, Misfits has been a home in Los Angeles for people exploring non-traditional ways of relating. Today, it’s evolving into a relational practice eco-system — experiential, interactive spaces where you can feel what actually happens in your body when you’re with other people.
Most of us were never taught how to stay connected to ourselves while being in connection.
We learn about communication, boundaries, and authenticity—but in real moments, it’s easy to lose track of what we feel, override ourselves, or fall back into familiar patterns.
If traditional ways of relating don’t quite fit… or you’ve experienced connection but something still feels missing, you’re not alone.
This space was created for that.
Here, we move beyond default scripts and into lived experience. We question what we’ve been taught, explore what actually feels true, and begin to shape relationships that are aligned, meaningful, and our own…through practice, reflection, and shared experience.
This space is for:
People of all genders, orientations, and ways of relating
Those who feel curious, in-between, or not fully at home in traditional relationship structures
Monogamous, non-monogamous, and everything in between
Those unlearning inherited patterns and exploring new ways of being in connection
Anyone drawn to relational growth through embodied, lived experience
Those who value honest conversation, shared reflection, and community support
how this ecosystem works
Misfits is a relational ecosystem grounded in lived, embodied experience. Most people enter through Misfits in Touch - our relational practice space where you begin building awareness of boundaries, presence, and connection through direct experience. From there, people naturally move into other spaces over time:
🖤 Misfits in Touch A relational practice space for discovering what feels true in your body through guided connection experiences. Practice boundaries, consent, co-regulation, attuned connection, and optional platonic touch 👉Explore Misfits in Touch
👯♂️Misfits in Love a conversational + social space for reflecting on lived experience, exploring how we want to relate, and most importantly - to have fun! 👉Join the Misfits community below when you’re ready—we’ll meet you there
🌀Misfits in Motion a relational lab exploring connection through movement, awareness, and play—revealing patterns of relating that often go unnoticed 👉Explore Misfits in Motion
not sure where to start?
Most people begin with Touch, as it offers a grounded, accessible way to experience the work in the body.
Others arrive through Motion or Love, depending on curiosity and timing.
join the misfits Community
Misfits is a shared relational space... one that’s been shaped over time through lived experience, care, and collective practice.
Rather than gatekeeping through rigid applications, we orient around shared agreements and a felt sense of readiness. These aren’t rules to follow perfectly, but ways we take responsibility for the kind of space we’re creating together.
If you’d like to join the Misfits community space (hosted on a private WhatsApp group), we invite you to read and agree to these shared agreements by clicking the button below.
After submitting, we’ll take a moment to review your responses to help ensure alignment with the space. If it feels like a good fit, we’ll send you a link to join.