misfits in touch practice
For people who are already self-aware but want to actually live it in connection
A 90-minute space to feel your yes, your no, and your truth in real time so connection moves from something you think about to something you actually embody 👉 See upcoming dates + tickets - Small group (max 12 people)
You’re not here because you need more tools.
You’re here because you’re not always able to use them in the moments that matter.
You understand boundaries. You’ve done the work. You can name your patterns.
And yet—in real-time connection—you still find yourself hesitating, softening your truth, or leaving conversations wishing you had said the thing.
This is a space to close that gap.
Not by talking about connection—
but by practicing it.
What This Is
90 min
structured
practice-based
embodied
Who This Is For
You’re self-aware—but don’t always live it in connection
You know your patterns, but still override your truth in the moment
You’re ready to practice honesty in real time
You want connection that feels clear, mutual, and grounded
You’re willing to take responsibility for your yes, your no, your pace
You want to trust yourself while your with another person
Not For You If
You’d rather analyze than participate
You want connection without effort or risk
You struggle to hear or say “no”
You’re looking for unstructured socializing or a cuddle-only space
You’re not willing to own your experience
Practice vs Misfits in touch
Practice (90 min)
focused
structured
repeatable
lighter
Misfits in Touch (3.5 hr)
deeper
more spacious
includes open connection + optional touch
🎟Upcoming practice sessions
1st & 3rd Thursdays
May 21st
June 4th
June 18th
July 2nd
July 16th
FAQs
(read this if you’re nervous - you’re not alone)
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No. Misfits in Touch is a platonic intimacy workshop. Any touch is non-sexual, structured, and optional.
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No. Participation is always a choice. You may observe, modify, or opt out of any exercise.
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Yes - many people do. The workshop is designed to be accessible and welcoming, especially for people who are curious but unsure.
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That’s okay. This workshop is a place to practice discovering them, not to have them all figured out.
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Totally welcome. There’s structure, clear agreements, and lots of permission to go slow.
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Wear comfortable clothes that allow for movement such as cotton t-shirts, pajamas, leggings, sweatpants...you can change when you arrive
Shorts to mid-thigh and a tank top is the minimum amount of clothing required
Shoes will be off and we’ll be on a padded area on the floor, socks are optional
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Please arrive sober so that you can give consent
Personal hygiene is important - be squeaky clean and minty fresh. It’s easier to get close that way!
No perfumes, cologne, essential oils
No cigarette smoke prior to arriving
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No - it’s a skills-based, facilitated community workshop. (Many people find it supportive, but it’s not clinical care.)
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Spots are limited and held with care for each participant. Because of this, tickets are non-refundable and can’t be applied to future events.
If you’re feeling unwell, please stay home — or if something unexpected comes up and you’re able to let us know in advance, we’re happy to offer a credit or refund. This helps keep the space safe and supported for everyone.
For missed events without prior notice, we’re not able to offer transfers or credits. You’re always welcome to gift your spot to a friend if you can’t make it.
We recommend adding the event to your calendar upon registration so it stays in your awareness.
FACILITATOR BIO
host + facilitator - Stella Stardust (she/they) passionately brings community together by facilitating events with the purpose of creating more authentic connection and meaningful dialogue. She has 20+years of teaching yoga, meditation, and shamanism, and is also trained in conflict resolution as a certified mediator. Her work lies at the intersection of somatics, spirituality, and social change. Read more about Stella here
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Plura Community
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Meetup for Misfits In Love
An experiential learning space for people who want to create relationships by felt truth rather than inherited scripts. More info here
SPLA (Sex Positive Los Angeles)
SPLA is a member/volunteer organization centered around understanding and exploring all aspects of human sexuality, consent, relationship styles, kink, gender, and orientation. More info here.
*At check-out, you’ll be asked to have read and review our WAIVER AND RELEASE OF LIABILITY here and agree that you fully understand its contents and to voluntarily agree to the terms and conditions stated.